some guy on twitter said this:
"in a bf/gf relationship you can't force your partner to be true with you! they have the ability to venture out and meet new ppl if they want"
how true is that?
how many guys agree with this? hell, how many girls do? i really want to take a poll..lol. cuz i can see both sides to that arguement.
like, if it's a cute little high school relationship or summer fling, you can't expect to much out of it. so maybe that does, and/or will, apply in that case. if anything, it's almost expected. if you're a little more grown, it makes sense, too; you're not married or anything, so technically, no one is getting wronged. you're just testing the waters, yeah?
but at the same time, i've got to say, i wouldn't be that comfortable sitting back and watching my bf go around talking to random people, it just looks wrong. and feels even worse. like, you call each other "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" for a reason, so there has to be some kind of commitment involved. it's like, when you have a favorite toy. you love that thing to death, you play with it, you sleep with it, you might tell it all your secrets [*shrugs*], whatever you do, that thing is yours, and nobody else's. then a friend comes over and wants to play with that toy. you were told that sharing is nice, but you know how your friend likes to take shit that doesn't belong to them, like that time that little snot stole your barbie last time she was over....anyway, would you want to share that favorite toy? i mean, it's just a toy, it could always get broken or thrown away or lost anyway. but it's YOUR favorite toy. you don't want to share. you shouldn't have to, there are plenty of other toys waiting to be played with, why do you have to share the one you want?
i actually would like to see what people think about this. if you actually pay attention to my blog, don't you wanna leave a comment? lol are you pro-venture or anti-mingle?
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