dating a "loser"

on twitter today, a girl asked, "how come pretty girls date losers?"
my first response was that "non losers" are generally jerks. but, after tweeting my response, i stopped to think, all too late, maybe she meant "loser" in another way. like, you have your societal losers, that spend time worrying more about doing things with their lives than looking like an idiot and trying to be "cool" for the rest of the world. then you have your relationship losers, that suck as significant others for one reason or another.
here's my opinion of both...
the first set of losers, in my opinion, seems more dateable. this is because the suckers who think they're "cool" don't tend to look for a real relationship. i have yet to be proven otherwise. the "cool" bums want to talk to about seven girls at a time. where's the relationship? and don't give me that "one of those seven might be his 'main' girl" bullshit. she shouldn't have to be number one, she shouldn't have to compete at all. she should be the ONLY one. the "losers" aren't like that. they're willing to be stupid for somebody they have feelings for. that ONE person they have LEGIT feelings for.

the other losers suck. point blank period. their suckery varies. of course you have your liars, cheaters, backstabbers, and the ones that use people. then you get the ones that are just being nice. since when is being nice a bad thing, you ask? well, for one thing, and maybe this is just me thinking too hard, but, what if he's only being "nice" because YOU like HIM? like, what if he only bothers to treat you the way he does because he'd feel bad if he did otherwise. and then there are the guys who are just nice to everyone. a little too nice. the ones with a bunch of female friends, the ones that talk to her friends more than she does; and the shit's just ok. i mean, just having a few friends of the opposite sex before you even start dating the girl and then maybe being polite to her friends, just because they're her friends, is different than having a whole slew of groupies, half of which the girl doesn't even know, that you talk to all the time, and will willingly stop a conversation with your own girl to talk to one of them, sharing secrets and shit. do you expect your girlfriend to be comfortable with that? i promise you she's not, no matter how much she swears she is. the fact that you don't care makes you, sir, a loser.
girls, ladies, chicks, whoever you are, if any of this sounds familiar, chances are you are dating a loser, in some way, shape or form. proceed with caution.