Wednesday, June 16, 2010

i found this on xanga, and i got to thinkin...

"I was talking the other day with one of my friends about college. I'm a junior in high school, and some girls I know have boyfriends who are seniors and who are graduating next week. My boyfriend is a junior so I don't have that problem, but my friend and I were talking about what we would do if our SOs was leaving for college in a month or two. Do you try to stay together, or just "let them go"?
I've heard of so many relationships being ripped apart because one of them is still in high school and one is at college. I've heard many opinions like people "don't want to hold their SO back" but they still want to be with them. I've also heard the horror stories of people being cheated on for months without their SO ever finding out.

That's just terrible. Is it easier to cheat when your in college? You're meeting new people and trying new things, maybe your high school sweetheart seems too young for you now? I don't know because this has never happened to me. But I'm curious about what usually happens.

Has anyone experienced this? Did you work through a long-distance relationship, or did you call it quits at least for a while? Could you see the break-up coming if that's what happened? Is it inevitable that a high school/college relationship could turn ugly in the long run? "

[alright yall. i have faith in our relationship and such, but, i'm also hella paranoid about everything in life, especially now that i'm going away. =/ idk how to feel about it, yo..]

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