Sex Doesn't Make You a Slut

Can we be adults for a minute? (No, seriously, you have to be pretty mature to read this post, because I made it easy for giggle fits.) Can we all be accepting of the fact that once we hit the age of 17, it is safe to assume that at least half of the people we know are not as "pure" as you would like to think? (SN: the legal age of consent is 17 in most states, meaning people are doing it with no consequence. Meaning people are doing it all over the place.) You may not agree with the dirty deeds they do, but they do it and that's not going to change because you want it to. I salute the people my age, and maybe even a few years older, that are patient and strong-willed enough to not have sex just yet. However, I'm not mad at the people that didn't wait.

Sex is as natural as sleeping or peeing. Your body is made to do it. Puberty happens, and you're supposed to put those wobbly bits to use (excuse my terminology, i give everything goofy names lol). Therefore, I don't think it's anyone's place to say that they don't think someone should be doing it. Number one, don't tell somebody else how to live their life; as long as you're living yours right, you have nothing to worry about. Number two, it's not like they're doing anything wrong just by having sex. Unless they are doing something wrong and it's not just sex. You have the right to frown upon that... But if people are able, they will do it. And the world is going to have to live with that.

There's a difference between being sexually active and being a slut... If I have sex with my boyfriend, so what? That doesn't make me a slut. That doesn't make me any less of a decent human being. I'm not a slut; I'm not sleeping around with any breathing guy with a penis like it's a hobby. Those are the people you should be worried about, and, even so, you can't tell anyone how to live their life, so you're gonna have to accept the sluts and their ways too, as long as they know they're doing bad things.

This is how I feel about sex... I do it, and so do a lot of the people I know; some of the people that don't do it wouldn't mind the opportunity to do it. That's what our bodies are telling us is the thing to do, not society or the media. No outside sources are FORCING (all of) us to have sex like a lot of people claim. For the most part, we can all make our own decisions... No, I don't believe in waiting until marriage for various reasons, but I do believe in waiting until you find someone that you really care about and that really cares about you, and not doing anything with someone you hardly know. Basically, I may not be "pure,", but it's not like I don't have any moral standards at all.

I just wanted to make that point. Don't look at someone like they're a bad person based on the fact that their not a virgin.

I'll give my slut talk another day. ;D

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